Are you exhausted from feeling on edge even when everything seems fine?
Is the pressure to perform leaving you drained, irritable, and questioning your abilities?
Is the stress of navigating different cultures and expectations making you feel isolated or misunderstood?
Does it feel like you're running on empty, with little energy left for your kids—or yourself?
Are you feeling lonely, misunderstood, or disconnected even when you're in the same room as your partner?
OR
Are you tired of spinning your wheels, no matter how hard you push?
PROFESSIONAL THERAPY CAN HELP

I am a clinical psychologist licensed in California, and I provide a supportive, bilingual (English/Mandarin) space for adults and adolescents to navigate life's challenges.
I specialize in helping individuals with Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Relationship issues, Cultural conflicts, Stress management, Parenting, and ADHD, and I have a particular focus on the complex intersections of career, culture, and relationships.

In my practice, I integrate powerful, evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness-based practice, tailoring them to help you build resilience and achieve your goals.

Finding a therapist who aligns with your needs and personal style is crucial for building trust and ensuring the progress and success of your therapy. Here are some factors to consider when looking for a therapist, as well as questions you can ask me during the initial free phone consultation:
In my practice, I emphasize compassion, respect, and integrity. I am dedicated to providing holistic, culturally sensitive care and strive to empower my clients to uncover and leverage their inner strengths.

I am a private pay provider. Choosing private pay offers maximum privacy and flexibility, as it does not require a diagnosis submitted to insurance and allows us to tailor treatment to your goals without insurance-mandated limitations.
I offer the following standard rates for self-paying clients:
Payment is accepted via credit/debit card, HSA, or FSA and is due at the time of service.

For clients who prefer to use their benefits, I am an in-network provider with the following insurance plans and Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs):
I've partnered with Headway to make using your insurance benefits as simple as possible. This platform helps you quickly verify your coverage and handles all billing and claims so that you can focus on your therapy. To get started, click the link below to check your benefits and book your appointment in a few easy steps.
My priority is to create a warm, non-judgmental space where you feel both heard and secure.
I prefer to have a quick phone consultation before scheduling a session. Please click the button below to drop me a line to state your needs and availability. I will respond within 48 hours. Once we have a clear understanding of your goals, we will collaborate on a path forward, tailoring each subsequent session to help you make meaningful progress toward the life you envision.


I have crossed many bridges in my life:
As a career changer, I returned to psychology after more than a decade in the business world. This transition has enabled me to better integrate practical experience with clinical training, making me better able to serve diverse client populations.
As a first-generation immigrant, I have navigated the bridge between two distinct cultures, learning to balance the nuances of cultural integration while honoring the rich tapestry of my heritage.
As a mental health practitioner, I am committed to bridging the gaps in mental health support, particularly for immigrants facing unique challenges in foreign lands. My experiences of adaptation, resilience, and transformation are invaluable assets for helping others through their struggles and transitions.
My Training and Clinical Experience:
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